24 Hour Foreplay

I recently wrote a hub about understanding how difficult it is for men in this world. Comments were mixed. Some women understand; some find it difficult to empathize. So here is the other side for men to read and learn :) You will both benefit!

Women are teachers, lawyers, doctors, secretaries, nurses, bankers. They come home tired. They then must make dinner, clean, tend to their children and, and, and. Men comparatively, as research proves, do not have anywhere near the long days that women have.

Although women enjoy sex, males are known to be more aggressive in the bedroom. Men want more usually and women are complaing that men want too much.

I am going to be very candid. I can seriously recall when my children were quite small telling my husband that the children hung on me all day and the last thing I needed was anyone else needing me or touching me. I told him that solitary confinement sounded good to me. I did not like feeling that way. I wanted to be able to enjoy our sex life as much as he did. I just did not feel like having sex. I worried and I wondered what was wrong with me.

I was watching Dr. Phil one day when he made a statement to a few of the men on his show that foreplay begins 24 hour in advance. The statement was like a light bulb going off in my head. There was nothing wrong with me. There was something wrong with the fact that I was doing 90 percent of the tasks inside of the home including the taking care of our two young sons. Men, foreplay begins 24 hours in advance and that does not mean that you begin groping your woman the day before. It means that you consistently step up to the plate and help pack the school lunches, you help with the cooking of the dinner, you help with the bathing of the children, you help - PERIOD - with the tasks at home.

My sons are now grown and people often comment and compliment me on how my sons always help with the tasks that need done around they house. They help to prepare the dinner, they help with the dishes, they help with the wash and they help with anything that needs to be done in the home. I simply respond that I was not going to raise another generation of males who believed that they should not have to help inside of the home.

My oldest son is now married. My daughter-in-law is the youngest of seven in a big Italian traditional family. The women are amazed at how my son helps. My daughter-in-law is totally in love with my son. She knows she will not be out there alone dealing with tasks that need to be accomplished. They will both reap the benefits of this mutual support in numerous areas of their relationship.

Ask any woman how she feels about her man when he helps out around the house and steps forward to help her. You can just hear her tones of endearment. You can bet he will be getting some action as will she.

So, men, I am going to give you some helpful hints. Step up to the plate and be willing to help out around the home. Get your hands dirty with housework, the children and anything else that your woman does and reap the benefits of your 24 hour foreplay investment. It won't be like the stock market. This investment goes up!